July 2009

Beyond the connections I made with old bloggy and Twitter friends at Blogher, I got the chance to rub shoulders with some pretty big names! I wasn’t one of the lucky ones who got the chance to hang out with Tim Gunn or Carson Kressley, but the celebrity experiences I had were amazing and meaningful.

In particular, having the chance to meet and briefly speak with Paula Deen was the best moment of my weekend. And yeah, I actually cried on the poor woman. No, I’m not psycho, really.  There’s a story here…

My mom and I have been huge Paula Deen fans since I discovered her on the Food Network several years ago. We made a point to watch her specials, often together, and would call each other to discuss the recipes she made on her show each day. She makes food that we like and that makes sense. While I love unusual and exotic ingredients, I can always count on Paula to make things that I can actually find all the components for. She’s perfect for the foodie on a budget – come on, the woman has a recipe that includes Ramen noodles. I. Heart. Paula.

Those of you who have been reading here for awhile know that I lost my mom last July. I’ve taken it hard, but had tried to hide it as much as I can, for the sake of the rest of the family. One of the last conversations I had with mom, probably the day before she passed away, suddenly and unexpectedly, was about how much I wanted to attend BlogHer 09. She promised to do anything she could to get me there. And then she was gone.

Mom still made good on her promise, I feel. Everything just fell into place with sponsorship and before I knew it, I was packing my bags to head to Chicago. I spent the days preparing just wishing I could share my excitement with my mom. Then it happened. I saw a tweet that Paula Deen was coming to Blogher. It was like mom was telling me she was there and she knew – and here’s a little extra something, just for you.

Thanks to some awesome friends (Tara and Adrienne) I had a great spot to see Paula speak and got the opportunity to meet her. I choked out a 10 second version of the story to Paula when my turn came to meet her. She looked up at me, with a misty look in her eyes and said “Honey, whenever you see me, think about all the special memories you have with your mama.”

That did it, she gave me a huge hug as I lost it on her shoulder. I’m sure she has no idea just how much those few seconds meant to me, but for a brief moment, I was hugging my mom again. Thank you, Paula, for giving me a very special moment.

Here’s me and Paula, before I had my breakdown:

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And after I lost it:

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Thanks to Amy, for letting me use her camera, since mine was having issues all weekend. If I had lost these, I’d have been heartbroken.

While that was the real kicker, as far as brushes with celebrity went, I met a few other cool people. Somewhere, floating around, is a picture of me with Chris Mann, that I have yet to see.

I also met:

Brooke White, from Americal Idol

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Nina from PBS Sprout’s Goodnight Show

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And , Frankie, The Jumpstart Dog

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I took pics of me and Mrs Potato Head, plus had some of Mrs P and Paula, but I think my camera ate them. Someone remind me to get a new camera before I head out for the TypeAMom Conference in September!!

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Blogher 09 Changed My Perspective

by Shannan on July 27, 2009

I’m home. I am so, so happy that I’m home. Don’t get me wrong, Blogher was probably the singular most eye-opening experience of my online life (in a good way) but I’m ecstatic to be back at home with my kids, my hubby, and familiarity.

I have already seen a lot of Blogher posts popping up. Many positive and several negative, mostly talking about the insanity that was the swag situation. And insane it was. Oh, and the craptastic WiFi that never worked from my room.

Don’t get me wrong about swag. I love a bag stuffed full of freebies and goodies as much as the next gal. But am I going to shove a mother wearing her baby or crash an event I wasn’t invited to just to get free things? Not on your life. Even if Blogher had been a swag free event, it would have been well worth the trip. If you didn’t get more out of the weekend than the things you stuffed into your extra suitcase, I really am sad for you.That’s all I have to say about that.

The loooong drive home from the airport (all. by. myself.) gave me time to reflect on the weekend that was such a whirlwind. As I ran down the events on my mind, my thoughts came to a screeching halt on the words of Heather Spohr during the community keynote. In a nutshell, she explained how during the loss of her daughter, her online world and “IRL” world crashed into each other and became one. Her friends are now just friends, with no need for an online versus real life distiction.

The same epiphany happened to me this weekend, though on a somewhat smaller scale. Of course, I’ve always known that the person on the other end of the words I read, the Flickr and Whrrl streams I see, the videos I watch are real people, dealing with real problems, and sharing their real emotions with a world of virtual strangers. But in my conversations, I kept them separate from my IRL friends.

In Chicago, I chatted with ladies over breakfast coffee and giggled with them over late night cocktails. We talked about missing our kids and how great it was to be away for a bit, all at the same time. There were hugs when we recognized each other after seeing nothing but still pics and avatars for 3 years.

I bared my pain and tears to women I didn’t even know, talking about the loss of my mom. I hugged others as they cried over their own pain. These women have always been “real” to me, but never as much as they are now.

After Blogher, I don’t have any “online” friends anymore. I  just have friends…sisters. The chocolate and peanut butter that I kept separate for so long has collided full force, and I will never be the same.

If you have never done a conference or a tweetup, do yourself a favor and make the extra effort. Your outlook on your own online community will change drastically, I think. I know mine has, and the deeper connection that I came away with will change how I interact within my community.

To those that I spent time with this weekend, thank you. My life will be better from just having seen your smile.I don’t even want to begin to try to list the names, for fear my jet-laggy brain will leave someone important out.

To those who I haven’t yet had the chance to meet, I cannot wait until the day when we have our chance.

I truly do love you all!!

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Want To Win Free PR? Find me At Blogher!

July 22, 2009

In my post a few days ago about the exciting Twitter Christmas in July giveaway, I alluded to another awesome promotion I was working on with my sponsors, Litzky PR. On Friday and Saturday, during conference hours, you will find me wearing a Litzky PR t-shirt that says “Free PR? Become A Fan” and carrying [...]

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It’s A Christmas In July Twitter Contest!

July 16, 2009

When I found out a few months back that Litzky Public Relations was interested in sending me to Blogher to represent them as the community manager of Momfluence, I was ecstatic! It’s not every day that a dream comes true, and I am so honored to be working with such an awesome group of people. [...]

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Jumeau Keri Bag Review

July 3, 2009

If you are a mommy of little ones, like me, chances are that you’re running around carrying a diaper bag instead of a purse. With two little ones only 14 months apart, I’m sure you can imagine that for a long, long time, I had so much junk to carry around I practically needed a [...]

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Delsey Helium Fusion Carryon Review

July 2, 2009

My good friend Mamikaze and I were recently chatting on Twitter about all of the things that we needed to get our hands on before Blogher. (Yeah, I’m talking Blogher again…I’m excited, deal) In our extensive list, we both mentioned a serious need for decent luggage. The Twitter gods smiled on us, and before long [...]

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Two Belles and a Bead Review

July 2, 2009

In the past several years, my wardrobe has dwindled down to nothing, especially my jewelry wardrobe. My rings no longer fit my now-chubby fingers(including my wedding rings *sob*), my dangly earrings and necklaces were all stashed or given away, because little hands would break them. What did it matter? I never went anywhere, anyway. Now [...]

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